Is it common for adult flirting with each other?
Men and women flirt whether in the office, out of office, during social communication but how offensive can it be to a relationship when your partner is caught flirting with the opposite sex?
An estimated 99% of communication in flirting is non verbal where the bodies are the ones doing the talking. Adult flirting is not something unusual these days. Some people say it’s nothing wrong to flirts as long as you do not do anything wrong to your relationship, if you are involve in one. If you are single, you are scoot free, flirt with all your might, you are doing no wrong.
Adult flirting might be good and bad at the same time. It is best when it is resulted to free booze at the clubs, exceptional service in the restaurant or you can odd waive speeding ticket. Adult flirting can makes you feel good and give us endorphins rush and smile to our face as long as it is not off the limits. But adult flirting can be dangerous too when it sends the wrong signal to the opposite sex.
I am not bias to adult flirting but when someone is involve in a relationship, I would best advice the person to stay away from flirting. Harm can be cause without you even realising it. One thing may lead to another and by the time you realise it might be too late to pull away. It may also bring disharmony and tense to your current relationship and risking in another third party involving in your relationship. Wrong place, wrong time and wrong person.
Most of the adult flirting response initiates from women. Someone told me before if you belong to another person, the more the woman wants to flirt and get you to be interested in her. Guess maybe women like competition or they couldn’t stand to see another woman getting a good man. I know women who only go after married men. They say married men or attached men are more reliable but how true is that is a question to ponder.
I strongly against adult flirting when it can break another person relationship. How mature is men to understand this is depending on the individual itself. Therefore when it comes to choose a partner in a relationship, I will be extra cautious and do my best to understand my partner before engaging in a relationship with him.
I read it in a book that men generally dense when it comes to interpreting signals. They tend to mistake friendliness and smiling for sexual interest. Maybe because they simply see world in more sexual terms than women or they have 20 times more testosterone than women. That might be one reason why men having difficulty in finding potential mates. On the other hand, older men usually try to attract young women by trying to show how successful is he or showers her with lots of gifts. I met before older men who try to flirt with me at work. Usually I will just ignore them so that I don’t create lots of hassle at work or making them misunderstood me. There was few times at my previous work place where my higher management manager tried to date me for lunch several times. I rejected him with respect.
I would still say it depends on individual as they have the option to choose to involve in adult flirting or vice versa. It’s always up to them and they should not make any excuse saying that the other sex started the adult flirting with them and invite them to join in. It is always up to the individual to choose as they have the option to involve in the flirt or pull away.
As such, I do encourage adult flirting among singles. It will tend to spark the relationship before they step in. Big Baby and I flirt a lot during our courtship. We always text each other and waiting for the other party to response. The moment of waiting just send chills all over to my body as I will be wondering what he has to say at the other end. He, usually make me smiles and laugh reading his messages. That’s how I fall in love with him, yep…adult flirting works, on the good side.
It keeps the romance burning, and it should be continue to generate eternal spark to your relationship.
Adult flirting
